by David Abete for the AJC
Carole Ashkinaze was raised by her parents to believe she had a choice of two mutually exclusive paths in life: She could have purpose, or she could have love. In the end, she achieved both – but at widely separated times.
“She divided her life into two chapters,” said Rabbi Peter S. Berg of The Temple in Atlanta. In Chapter One, she was an award-winning journalist – earning a Pulitzer Prize for investigative reporting just a few years out of college – and an advocate for human rights. She was the first woman to serve on The Atlanta Journal-Constitution’s editorial board, and a friend of such prominent leaders as President Jimmy Carter.
“In Chapter Two, she found love,” Berg said. “Just as journalism was her passion in the first part of her life, her husband Irv was her passion in the second.” She was 63 when she and Irving Kay were married.
Carole Ashkinaze Kay, 71, of Sandy Springs, died Sept. 19 at Hospice Atlanta after a five-year battle with gastric cancer. Her funeral was Tuesday at The Temple. Berg delivered the eulogy. Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care handled the arrangements.
Irving Kay said his wife was devoted to her work, “especially for the causes of women and civil liberties” in the 1970s and ‘80s, “and our relationship. Those were the two great passions of her life.”
She always wanted to be a journalist, he said. “The story I heard was, when she went to summer camp – she was maybe 10 years old – they put her in charge of the mimeograph machine and the camp newspaper, and that’s how it all got started.”